Just look, 5 conflict interactions compared to one indicator paired with Alex! Here it will obviously be much more difficult for them to agree. Since Ben is conflicted in a couple, these relationships will last exactly as long as she can mitigate his conflict. But I must say right away that this is a complex type of relationship. Although this is still tolerable, compared to what is on the chart, for example, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt.
And in such a situation, it will be very useful to calculate when to expect the onset of such conflict periods, since such a potential is clearly laid in their future.
There are no Seals of Happiness in their couple.
But the Seal of Misfortune, unfortunately, has a place to be...
And, again, she puts pressure on her partner. At times, Ben will miss her warmth. And it will seem to her that he is somehow not up to her. In this case, again, a similar situation - she may lose interest in the relationship as a couple over time. And this again points to karmic relationships, given for working off.
However, there is one important note. If Ben was born at a completely different time, for example, at night, then the aspect can "leave", then the situation will be better. Although, this is unlikely.
Thus, according to the compatibility of the pair of Lopez and Affleck, we can say that in these relations everything is not at all as smooth as it is presented in the media and difficulties will definitely manifest themselves in time. And there is a high probability that Lopez may lose interest in him over time (in the presence of the Seal of Misfortune), but their separation will probably be much more conflicting than it happened with Rodriguez.
In general, in her relationship in both cases, a similar trend can be traced - passion in sexual relations, increased sexuality of the partners she chooses (at the same time, this indicator is lower for herself), the formation of Seals of Misfortune with partners, i.e. she comes into their lives as a strict teacher who wants to change something in a partner (this is subjective). Everywhere there is karmic working off.
In this regard, it is interesting to pay attention to her personal Horoscope or Natal chart.
And here is what surprised me - almost all the planets are maximally aspected with each other, with the exception of Venus and Saturn!
Just look at the Sun, Moon, Mercury - how enriched they are! How many opportunities to release energy, how much positive!
It can be said only by the Sun that a person is able to build his life according to his own scenario and will definitely succeed, but I will immediately say that this success is not easy - a lot of work has been done. This is not at all the success when fame falls "like snow on your head", this is exactly painstaking work. Saturn speaks of this, hitting her Sun.
And since we are talking about the topic of relationships, let's see which partners she chooses and why - a certain pattern is already being traced in these two novels.
In her case, the Sun is responsible for the husband, for the chosen man in her chart. The Sun in this case describes what type of partner it is attracted to. It's here in Leo! So, she is attracted by a prominent, bright, creative, dignified, respectable type of man or one who is Leo according to the Zodiac Sign. Both Alex and Ben are Lions in the Solar Sign.
In addition, according to other indicators, we see that a person should be sociable, contact, physically active, with an entrepreneurial streak. This is a rich, well-to-do, high-status person, a foreigner or a person from afar. Friendship underlies these relationships, fidelity is very important, as well as spirituality, the creative orientation of the individual. And only a little "tar in a spoon with honey" is the same Saturnian influence that creates an unhappy shade in a relationship, delays or various obstacles. Promises separation. And the interrupted relationship with Ben Affleck, just the result of such Saturnian influence. Just imagine how he slowed down the development of relations, as much as 10 years!
One way or another, her card is incredibly resourceful and partners, like herself, are very powerful.
We wish her, under any circumstances, to live a love relationship harmoniously.
With age, a person is already more aware and capable of a more productive study of his negative patterns of behavior, which means that there are more chances for a happy relationship!
Author - professional astrologer, Anna Raight